Hello there! I just want to share my short dream about my crush that I had few weeks ago. Before I share the dream itself, allow me to share our interaction from that time up until now. Ever since I treated her, things started to get awkward because maybe she felt through my actions that I like her. I honestly don't know why, and why does it have to be that way when my intentions are pure. Anyways, moving on with the dream that I had. In my dream that time, I was feeling the same feeling in real life wherein I am a bit sad and don't know what to do how will I approach her in a way that the awkwardness between us will somehow be gone. In my dream, she, miraculously and all of a sudden, approached me and took a picture and some short random selfie vid with me for keeps, as if we're very close. And from that, it felt that our awkwardness was already gone which I'm happy. But I can't understand why, when the night came in my dream, I saw her outside of my house as I am inside of my house, that she has a guy. It's a bit sensitive to share, but in my dreams, I caught them doing sexual things. That last part of my dream is a bit weird because in real life, I can confidently say that I didn't, in any way, sexualized her nor thought anything sexual about her. I can say that it was an exact opposite of how I see her in real life. I even promised God that no matter what happens, whether she reciprocates my feelings or not, I will respect and treat her right. That's all for now.
Dreams involving crushes can be complex, often reflecting our emotions, fears, desires, and the dynamics of our relationships with them. Let’s break down the elements of your dream to gain deeper insight into its meaning.
Emotional State: You mentioned feeling sad and unsure about how to approach your crush in real life. This sentiment is mirrored in your dream, highlighting your inner conflict regarding this relationship. The dream likely reflects your yearning for clarity and connection, as well as your struggle with the awkwardness between you.
Connection and Closeness: In the dream, when your crush approaches you to take a selfie and seem close to you, this could symbolize your desire for a more intimate and comfortable relationship. You might be longing for moments of connection and affirmation that your feelings are reciprocated. The act of taking a picture signifies a longing to capture happy moments together, which contrasts with the current feelings of awkwardness.
Fear of Infidelity or Loss: The latter part of your dream, where you see her with another guy engaging in sexual activities, may represent your fears of losing her or not being able to have the relationship you desire. Subconsciously, this could reveal your anxiety about competition or your feelings of inadequacy. Such imagery can also stem from a protective instinct, as you care deeply about her and want to ensure her happiness, even if it’s not with you.
The Contrast of Intentions and Desires: You emphasize that you do not perceive her sexually in real life, yet that imagery appeared in your dream. This could indicate a conflict between your platonic feelings and the primal nature of attraction. Dreams can often bring forth hidden thoughts or feelings we may not fully acknowledge, even if they’re not in alignment with our conscious intentions.
Overall, this dream could signify your emotional turmoil regarding your crush, your desire for closeness, and your fears about potential competition or loss. It may be helpful to reflect on these feelings in your waking life, considering how you can approach her with honesty and openness to address the awkwardness. Communication can sometimes ease the tension and clarify both of your intentions.